"The Cost of Staying Personal"
- Toni Cartright
- Sep 30
- 3 min read

We love being the kind of company that answers texts at 9pm, makes extra trips to save you from waiting, and treats every project like it’s our own home. But that personal touch comes at a cost.
Running a small, family-owned business isn’t just about cabinets, closets, and countertops—it’s about people. From the very beginning, we’ve built Cartright & Sons Cabinetry on a boutique-style experience. That means hand-holding, late-night phone calls, one-on-one attention, and walking clients through every decision until the last knob is installed.
And truthfully? That’s what sets us apart.
It’s why our clients leave glowing reviews. It’s why word-of-mouth carries our name around Southwest Florida. It’s why we’re proud of what we’ve built.
But here’s the honest part: it comes at a cost.
The Hidden Toll of Boutique Service
That level of personal involvement requires time, energy, and sacrifice. Every project means juggling dozens of moving pieces, troubleshooting when something doesn’t go as planned, and making sure every single detail lives up to our standards.
And sometimes, it costs us financially, too. We don’t nickel-and-dime our clients after the contract is signed. If we can help, we do. That might mean extra trips to the jobsite, quick responses that push other pending work aside, or little favors that make a project smoother for the homeowner. We don’t mind—we actually value being able to go above and beyond. But those small acts of service add up in both hours and dollars.
It’s rewarding, yes—but it’s also exhausting. When every email, every measurement, every touch-up runs through our small team, there’s little room left for balance outside of work. The lines between business and family life blur, and the dream of being our own bosses sometimes feels more like the business owning us.
The Temptation of Scaling Up
The obvious solution is to hire more people, create strict policies, and lean into efficiency. Many companies do this. They grow bigger, faster, and more streamlined. Clients are guided through a process that’s more uniform and less dependent on individuals.
But here’s the catch: what gets lost is the very thing that makes businesses like ours special.
We don’t want our clients to feel like just another number in the system. We want them to know that when they choose us, they’re choosing a family—one that truly cares about their home and invests in making it right.
Walking the Tightrope
So, here we are—standing on that tightrope between boutique service and sustainable growth. We’re constantly asking ourselves:
How do we keep our signature personal touch while protecting our time and sanity?
How do we create systems that help, without stripping away the heart of what makes us different?
How do we say “yes” to growth without saying “no” to our family?







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